I guess because I've never been in the situation

where you "love" someone so much, even if they treat you like crap, ditch you for their friends constantly, put you down and make you cry, you're still gonna stay with them... I don't understand how you can stay with that kind of person. and then you say that you're stronger than that and you don't need that, and then you stick up for that person, even though they're just gonna turn around and make you cry again. "it hurts too much to forget about them..." & "I would have to move away to forget about them" so you would rather stay here and date this person who is obviously bad for you? I just don't get it... and you're always saying how that you would never put up with someone's bullshit and of you were in a relationship that was unhealthy you would deal with it... but i see it... i see that your relationship is unhealthy. you're always crying over him. he's always ditching you to be with his friends... and then when we spend a few weekends together he complains that you're always spending all the weekends with me... and you cant get upset with him, but he can get upset with you? that's not right. and all you say is that you need to talk, but every time you talk to each other about stuff like this you guys end up fighting and you crying and you coming to me telling me what happened... none of this makes me want to like him... i really did in the beginning... i did. i promise. but the things that you have told me and the way he's been treating you makes me all the more want to burn his house down with him inside... he makes you feel like shit all the time... not just this weekend. don't tell me it's just been this weekend... you were upset with him while you were in vacation and before you left.. i can't even count the number of times you've texted me telling me you're crying because of him... or that you're upset with something he did.. he doesn't help your situation at home either... he just seems to add on to the nonsense of it all... he said he's change, but we all can see that he hasn't and you have even admitted to that. and that he's not grown up enough to handle it... so why stick up for him? why stay with him? you gotta be strong... that's all I'm saying. I know you'll always care about him, but sometimes you gotta let it go, for better things to come along.. and he's no good for you.

i don't know what to tell you anymore because in the end you'll still stick around for him... sadly enough.

sorry for the rant... i needed to vent a little.

k thanks for listening. :)